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On today’s Intelligent Money Minute, we’ll interview Kathleen Rehl on not being a financial purse for suitors. In an attempt to find new love, widows can fall prey to greedy suitors. Suitors who are more interested in a widow’s purse than them as a person. During this episode, Kathleen provides insight and tips on how to avoid being a purse to potential suitors.
At Intelligent Investing, we believe communication is important, and we strive to be a liaison between family members such as spouses, or parents and children. Kathleen mentioned how you don’t want to be financially scammed in a new relationship.
Some of our most popular blogs are the financial scam series we posted on our website. We talk about how to emotionally heal after being financially scammed, how to help others who have been financially scammed, and 11 ways to protect yourself from being financially scammed. You can find all of those on our blog page.
Please be sure to subscribe to our podcasts as we will be interviewing Kathleen on an upcoming podcast where she explains how to simply write a legacy letter to your family and friends. You will not want to miss it. You can purchase Kathleen’s book here.
Kathleen M. Rehl, Ph.D., CFP®, CeFT® wrote the multi-award-winning book, Moving Forward on Your Own: A Financial Guidebook for Widows. Experiencing widowhood herself, Dr. Rehl empowers widows financially™ and inspires their advisors. Her work has been featured in the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, AARP Bulletin, CNBC, USA Today, U.S. News & World Report, Journal of Financial Service Professionals, Journal of Financial Planning, and other publications. Rehl owned a financial planning firm for 17 years before retiring to her “encore” career. She walks an hour daily, practices yoga, enjoys art and music festivals, writes poetry and makes art, loves her grandsons . . . and continues to evolve on her journey.
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Despite Christmas being a cheerful time of year, many people find the holidays very depressing. Shelly experienced tragedy on Mother’s Day when her son Jonathan passed away. During this episode, Shelly Hamilton gives tips on how to deal with tragedy, sadness, and trials during the holidays. She highlights the value of speaking the truth to yourself to stay grounded and encouraged.
As Shelly mentioned, practicing self-talk and redirecting your negative thoughts to others and the blessings in your life can help as you deal with grief and the loss of loved ones. One of our core values at Intelligent Investing is Compassion, and as we work with other widows, I want to share some of our resources. You can visit investedwithyou.com, search our blogs by topic and find another blog titled “10 Tips for Caring for a Spouse or Parent who has become a child.” If you’d like to learn more about Intelligent Investing or would like to become a client, click here.
Shelly Hamilton recently published a book titled, “Always Only Good.” This book details Shelly’s journey of faith through her son Jonathan’s mental illness shortly after his death in 2013. You can purchase the book here.
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Shelly Hamilton, the daughter of Frank Garlock, married Ron Hamilton aka “Patch the Pirate” in 1975. They have managed Majesty Music and written sacred music for children and adults since they joined the ministry in 1978. Shelly currently ministers at Majesty Music as pianist, composer, arranger, and recording producer. In 2013, their son killed himself after years of struggle with mental health issues. The family’s public struggle and acknowledgement of mental health issues has reached people around the world. Most recently her family faces a new challenge: Ron Hamilton’s early onset of dementia. Her insight and music will encourage anyone facing the challenges of life.
In January 2018 Majesty Music announced their third generation of leadership. After years of waiting for God’s timing, Ron and Shelly transitioned the ministry over to their son-in-law Representative Adam Morgan and his wife, Ron and Shelly’s daughter, Megan.
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On today’s Intelligent Money Minute, we’ll interview Kathleen Rehl on what widows should look for in a trusted financial advisor. Unfortunately, many financial wolves in sheeps clothing prey upon new widows. During a time of loss, widows may seek advice, counsel, and refuge in the wrong places bring about financial catastrophe. On the flip side, a widow may have a financial advisor who’s sincere, but doesn’t seek to connect on an emotional level. During this episode, Kathleen gives key factors of what to look for in a trusted financial advisor.
We would love to help you organize your financial junk drawers and help you organize your widowhood timeline and help you sort through the decisions that need to be made immediately, in the short-term and in the long-term. Keep in mind that at Intelligent Investing, we do not sell any products such as annuities or insurance products. As fiduciaries we want to do what is in our clients’ best interests at all times. We’d love to let you learn more about our firm to see if we’d be a good fit to work together. To schedule a complimentary call or coffee click here.
Please be sure to subscribe to our podcasts as we will be interviewing Kathleen on an upcoming podcast where she explains how to simply write a legacy letter to your family and friends. You will not want to miss it. You can purchase Kathleen’s book here.
Kathleen M. Rehl, Ph.D., CFP®, CeFT® wrote the multi-award-winning book, Moving Forward on Your Own: A Financial Guidebook for Widows. Experiencing widowhood herself, Dr. Rehl empowers widows financially™ and inspires their advisors. Her work has been featured in the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, AARP Bulletin, CNBC, USA Today, U.S. News & World Report, Journal of Financial Service Professionals, Journal of Financial Planning, and other publications. Rehl owned a financial planning firm for 17 years before retiring to her “encore” career. She walks an hour daily, practices yoga, enjoys art and music festivals, writes poetry and makes art, loves her grandsons . . . and continues to evolve on her journey.
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On today’s Intelligent Money Minute, we’ll interview Kathleen Rehl on trends in widowhood. The yearly census shows that, on average, one million women become widowed. During this episode, Kathleen defines her proprietary word Wid-Ex and how it impacts widowhood life. Wid-Ex will affect millions of women in the upcoming years and can have long lasting implications.
As Kathleen mentioned, there are more widows as a result of COVID-19, and widowhood is being talked about more as widows are being featured more and more in our entertainment. Kathleen also introduced us to a concept she terms, “Wid-Ex” where a widow can find herself grieving when an ex-husband passes away.
Please be sure to subscribe to our podcasts as we will be interviewing Kathleen on an upcoming podcast where she explains how to simply write a legacy letter to your family and friends. You will not want to miss it. You can purchase Kathleen’s book here.
Kathleen M. Rehl, Ph.D., CFP®, CeFT® wrote the multi-award-winning book, Moving Forward on Your Own: A Financial Guidebook for Widows. Experiencing widowhood herself, Dr. Rehl empowers widows financially™ and inspires their advisors. Her work has been featured in the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, AARP Bulletin, CNBC, USA Today, U.S. News & World Report, Journal of Financial Service Professionals, Journal of Financial Planning, and other publications. Rehl owned a financial planning firm for 17 years before retiring to her “encore” career. She walks an hour daily, practices yoga, enjoys art and music festivals, writes poetry and makes art, loves her grandsons . . . and continues to evolve on her journey.
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On today’s Intelligent Money Minute, we’ll interview Kathleen Rehl on 5 steps to leaving a legacy letter. Kathleen says, “you can give loved ones a far more precious treasure that’s a legacy of who you are.” The task of leaving a lasting written memoir may seem daunting. During this episode, Kathleen breaks down each step of writing a legacy letter so anyone can do it.
As Kathleen mentioned, the five steps to writing a legacy letter are
To get a link where you can see this legacy letter template and see it in action, click here.
Please be sure to subscribe to our podcasts as we will be interviewing Kathleen on an upcoming podcast where she explains how to simply write a legacy letter to your family and friends. You will not want to miss it. You can purchase Kathleen’s book here.
Kathleen M. Rehl, Ph.D., CFP®, CeFT® wrote the multi-award-winning book, Moving Forward on Your Own: A Financial Guidebook for Widows. Experiencing widowhood herself, Dr. Rehl empowers widows financially™ and inspires their advisors. Her work has been featured in the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, AARP Bulletin, CNBC, USA Today, U.S. News & World Report, Journal of Financial Service Professionals, Journal of Financial Planning, and other publications. Rehl owned a financial planning firm for 17 years before retiring to her “encore” career. She walks an hour daily, practices yoga, enjoys art and music festivals, writes poetry and makes art, loves her grandsons . . . and continues to evolve on her journey.
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On today’s Intelligent Money Minute, we’ll interview Kathleen Rehl on why you should leave a legacy letter. It’s wise to have your final will and testament in order, but your possessions aren’t the most valuable gift for family and friends. Kathleen says, “you can give loved ones a far more precious treasure that’s a legacy of who you are.” During this episode, Kathleen talks about the priceless value of leaving your family and friends a legacy letter.
Your family will likely read and re-read a legacy letter should something happen to you. As Kathleen said, your family will likely pull out and look at a legacy letter that you have written more often then they will pull out your final will and testament. We also talked about our core values which spell out the word, CLIENT. If you’d like to know more about Intelligent Investing’s core values, please visit here.
Please be sure to subscribe to our podcasts as we will be interviewing Kathleen on an upcoming podcast where she explains how to simply write a legacy letter to your family and friends. You will not want to miss it. You can purchase Kathleen’s book here.
Kathleen M. Rehl, Ph.D., CFP®, CeFT® wrote the multi-award-winning book, Moving Forward on Your Own: A Financial Guidebook for Widows. Experiencing widowhood herself, Dr. Rehl empowers widows financially™ and inspires their advisors. Her work has been featured in the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, AARP Bulletin, CNBC, USA Today, U.S. News & World Report, Journal of Financial Service Professionals, Journal of Financial Planning, and other publications. Rehl owned a financial planning firm for 17 years before retiring to her “encore” career. She walks an hour daily, practices yoga, enjoys art and music festivals, writes poetry and makes art, loves her grandsons . . . and continues to evolve on her journey.
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On this episode of Intelligent Money Minute, we’ll be interviewing Shelly Hamilton on living in a glass house. During this episode, Shelly is joined by her son-in-law and daughter, Adam and Megan Morgan. A glass house is a term used for more those whose lives are more public than the average person. They talk about the hurdles, challenges, and experiences of living in a glass house. Shelly stresses the value of staying true to their faith and values whether people are watching or not.
One of Intelligent Investing’s core values is Truth. We believe that speaking the truth in love is so vital…especially when it comes to talking within families. We strive to unite families with financial communication, and if you are going to be transferring your business in the near future (especially to another family member), we’d love to start having a conversation with you. We can help be the liaison between family members, and we can help you plan for the many aspects of transferring a business.
If you haven’t subscribed to our podcasts, you can go to our podcast page and choose whichever method you want to download them. While you are there, you can go to our blog page and subscribe so you can get our latest Intelligent Insights directly in your inbox.
Shelly Hamilton, the daughter of Frank Garlock, married Ron Hamilton aka “Patch the Pirate” in 1975. They have managed Majesty Music and written sacred music for children and adults since they joined the ministry in 1978. Shelly currently ministers at Majesty Music as pianist, composer, arranger, and recording producer. In 2013, their son killed himself after years of struggle with mental health issues. The family’s public struggle and acknowledgement of mental health issues has reached people around the world. Most recently her family faces a new challenge: Ron Hamilton’s early onset of dementia. Her insight and music will encourage anyone facing the challenges of life.
In January 2018 Majesty Music announced their third generation of leadership. After years of waiting for God’s timing, Ron and Shelly transitioned the ministry over to their son-in-law Representative Adam Morgan and his wife, Ron and Shelly’s daughter, Megan.