The Slippery Slope of COVID-19- Navigating the Bear Market
Sadly, for many retirees, the slippery slope of retirement transition just got a lot more dangerous.

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On today’s Intelligent Money Minute, we’ll interview Kathleen Rehl on how remarriage can be a tough conversation. Kathleen gives advice on how to have the conversation of remarriage with your widowed clients. Speaking from personal example, she shares the process of becoming ready to remarry. She also sheds light on the types of conversations she and her new husband have had. Of top priority was the communication with and among their children. Also of importance was discussing their finances (i.e. estate plans, housing, prenuptial agreements, etc.) Maximizing communication with family and a new spouse is imperative because of the deep emotions that can be involved. A helpful article for having this conversation with your client can be found here.
As Kathleen mentioned, money can be a topic that can divide spouses and family members. At Intelligent Investing, one of our unique factors that makes us different is how we strive to unify families in financial communication. We’d love to be the bridge between spouses and multiple generations to make sure everyone is on the same page when it comes to money. To learn more about our unique factors visit What Makes Us Different.
On upcoming podcasts, Kathleen will talk about the three stages of widowhood- Grief, Growth, and Grace, so be sure to subscribe by clicking here.
Kathleen M. Rehl, Ph.D., CFP®, CeFT® wrote the multi-award-winning book, Moving Forward on Your Own: A Financial Guidebook for Widows. Experiencing widowhood herself, Dr. Rehl empowers widows financially™ and inspires their advisors. Her work has been featured in the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, AARP Bulletin, CNBC, USA Today, U.S. News & World Report, Journal of Financial Service Professionals, Journal of Financial Planning, and other publications. Rehl owned a financial planning firm for 17 years before retiring to her “encore” career. She walks an hour daily, practices yoga, enjoys art and music festivals, writes poetry and makes art, loves her grandsons . . . and continues to evolve on her journey.
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On today’s Intelligent Money Minute, we’ll interview Kathleen Rehl on why widows are hot. During this episode, Kathleen explains why widows are hot and how the future is female. First, she states several statistics concerning the high percentage of widowed/singled women at death. Compared to men, significantly more women are widowed or single when they die. Kathleen also mentions that most of the world’s wealth is being controlled by women today. This is due to many women being beneficiaries of an inheritance. Lastly, Kathleen remarks on the number of women today in higher education. Investors, and professionals alike, should plan on working with women due to the rise in widowhood.
At Intelligent Investing, we understand there is a current shift and the statistics are clear that there will be a rise in widows and widowhood. Here is a link to the book Kathleen mentioned- The Longevity Economy on our blog page. We also have a page dedicated to widows at investedwithyou.com, where you can find information and content geared towards widows and women.
On upcoming podcasts, Kathleen will talk about the three stages of widowhood- Grief, Growth, and Grace, so be sure to subscribe by clicking here.
Kathleen M. Rehl, Ph.D., CFP®, CeFT® wrote the multi-award-winning book, Moving Forward on Your Own: A Financial Guidebook for Widows. Experiencing widowhood herself, Dr. Rehl empowers widows financially™ and inspires their advisors. Her work has been featured in the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, AARP Bulletin, CNBC, USA Today, U.S. News & World Report, Journal of Financial Service Professionals, Journal of Financial Planning, and other publications. Rehl owned a financial planning firm for 17 years before retiring to her “encore” career. She walks an hour daily, practices yoga, enjoys art and music festivals, writes poetry and makes art, loves her grandsons . . . and continues to evolve on her journey.
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On today’s Intelligent Money Minute, we’ll interview Kathleen Rehl on how to help a new widow, and things not to say. Kathleen initially gives the advice to simply listen to a widow. Such a simple gesture may sound easy, but it is often more difficult than expected. Let her recall memories, remembering her husband, and even letting her cry. This simple act of kindness, listening, goes further than one might imagine. Next, Kathleen gives advice on what not to say to a widow. Phrases such as “I’m so sorry for your loss,” or “at least you still have your children, etc.” are not helpful. Instead, these phrases can be more self-focused than thoughtful. A more insightful phrase may be, “I can’t begin to understand your loss, but I’m going to be here with you.” Lastly, Kathleen mentions how much more beneficial specific questions or gestures may be. Asking “How are you eating/sleeping?” or offering to come over for a visit may be greatly appreciated.
Talking about spouses that have passed away can be difficult, but part of the healing process for a widow. Consider removing cliché phrases such as “At least…., and I’m sorry.” and replacing them with heartfelt questions such as “How are you eating? How are you sleeping.” Let the widow know you are going to be there for them in the days and weeks ahead and consider scheduling a coffee or tea to spend genuine time listening to their grief. For more information on widows, visit our website page for widows by going to investedwithyou.com.
On upcoming podcasts, Kathleen will talk about the three stages of widowhood- Grief, Growth, and Grace, so be sure to subscribe by clicking here.
Kathleen M. Rehl, Ph.D., CFP®, CeFT® wrote the multi-award-winning book, Moving Forward on Your Own: A Financial Guidebook for Widows. Experiencing widowhood herself, Dr. Rehl empowers widows financially™ and inspires their advisors. Her work has been featured in the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, AARP Bulletin, CNBC, USA Today, U.S. News & World Report, Journal of Financial Service Professionals, Journal of Financial Planning, and other publications. Rehl owned a financial planning firm for 17 years before retiring to her “encore” career. She walks an hour daily, practices yoga, enjoys art and music festivals, writes poetry and makes art, loves her grandsons . . . and continues to evolve on her journey.
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