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On this episode of Intelligent Money Minute, we’ll be interviewing Shelly Hamilton on balancing work, life, and ministry. There’s nothing more all-consuming than running a business. Shelly and Ron Hamilton faced an interesting situation because their business was also their ministry. During this episode, Shelly stresses the importance of enjoying your family and life while balancing all these areas. In fact, Shelly believes including their kids in the business brought them closer as a family.
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Shelly Hamilton, the daughter of Frank Garlock, married Ron Hamilton aka “Patch the Pirate” in 1975. They have managed Majesty Music and written sacred music for children and adults since they joined the ministry in 1978. Shelly currently ministers at Majesty Music as pianist, composer, arranger, and recording producer. In 2013, their son killed himself after years of struggle with mental health issues. The family’s public struggle and acknowledgement of mental health issues has reached people around the world. Most recently her family faces a new challenge: Ron Hamilton’s early onset of dementia. Her insight and music will encourage anyone facing the challenges of life.
In January 2018 Majesty Music announced their third generation of leadership. After years of waiting for God’s timing, Ron and Shelly transitioned the ministry over to their son-in-law Representative Adam Morgan and his wife, Ron and Shelly’s daughter, Megan.
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During this episode, Shelly opens up about the challenges of losing her husband to Alzheimer’s. Retirement looks a lot different than what Shelly and Ron had imagined. Instead of enjoying time off work and worldwide traveling, Shelly has cared for Ron whose battled dementia for many years. As we talked, Shelly stressed how important it was for her to continue believing in God’s sovereign plan for her life. Often, she reminded herself that she’s on assignment and that taking care of Ron is part of that mission.
According to the Alzheimer’s Association, it is estimated that 10 million baby boomers will develop Alzheimer’s. Of those who reach the age of 85, nearly one in two will get it. One of our most popular blogs on our website, is “10 Tips for Caring for a Spouse Who Has Become a Child” You can find this blog, by heading to “Blogs” and click on the “Healthcare” category at the top.
As Shelly mentioned, facing the trial of when a spouse becomes a child is not something you want to handle all alone. If you are a husband or wife who doesn’t have a financial advisor or planner, I can’t urge you enough to find one that you can entrust to become involved in your finances. We’d love to grab a cup of coffee or have a quick phone call if you find yourself in this situation. We’d be happy to listen to your needs, and whether we may be a good fit to be your financial stewardship partner.
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Shelly Hamilton, the daughter of Frank Garlock, married Ron Hamilton aka “Patch the Pirate” in 1975. They have managed Majesty Music and written sacred music for children and adults since they joined the ministry in 1978. Shelly currently ministers at Majesty Music as pianist, composer, arranger, and recording producer. In 2013, their son killed himself after years of struggle with mental health issues. The family’s public struggle and acknowledgement of mental health issues has reached people around the world. Most recently her family faces a new challenge: Ron Hamilton’s early onset of dementia. Her insight and music will encourage anyone facing the challenges of life.
In January 2018 Majesty Music announced their third generation of leadership. After years of waiting for God’s timing, Ron and Shelly transitioned the ministry over to their son-in-law Representative Adam Morgan and his wife, Ron and Shelly’s daughter, Megan.
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In our previous post, we talked about how many seniors unrealistically believe they can take care of themselves for the rest of their lives. Unfortunately, this isn’t the case, and we discussed the importance of regular communication and how to deal with stubborn parents. This post is a continuation of that theme…
Make Sure All Siblings Are Unified
It is vital that all siblings and family members are on the same page. It often only takes one disgruntled child who urges the parent to stay in his home to make placement nearly impossible. Sometimes this challenging sibling isn’t even the one taking care of the parent or may live far away without first-hand knowledge of the situation.
Avoid Extraneous “Baggage”
When families get together, there can sometimes be personal “baggage” brought to the table. It is best to avoid unnecessary confrontation or sensitive family subjects, for the good of the parent. Remember, don’t be selfish. It is not about your issue or past grievance, it is about what’s best for your parent.
Power of Attorney
Important items to address include financial issues to pay for the parent’s living expenses, and who will act as the elder’s durable power of attorney for health care. One capable person should be appointed as the elder’s primary advocate. This person, whether a son (or daughter-in-law) or daughter or adult grandchild, should oversee financial decisions and act as the elder’s durable power of attorney for health care.
Dealing with the Guilt
No matter how smoothly the process goes, children often retain guilt about moving elderly parents to a long-term care facility, especially, if they are religious. Regardless of whether you promised to never put a parent in a nursing home, the decision about placement must be based on what’s best for the parent at a given time.
Remember, putting a parent in a nursing home may be the most loving act that a child can do because it may improve the quality of the parent’s life from medical and social perspectives. Nursing homes vary in quality but in general, are places where parents often thrive.
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Forming a Caregiving Team
Caregiving is a family affair. It is important to gather your siblings, children, uncles and aunts together to address an ailing loved one’s needs. Have a meeting and discuss the problem, without the parent present. Remember to never go it alone.
You may also want to include a financial advisor, home care provider, and elder care attorney on your caregiving team. A financial advisor may be able to help answer financial questions related to placing mom or dad in an assisted living or skilled care home. A wealth manager may help preserve capital for your aging parent and help with determining the best way to fund the assisted living home. The home care provider may be able to “shop around” for the ideal next home for your parent. An elder care attorney can help with legal questions related to your aging parents.
We’d like to be part of your Caregiving Team
Intelligent Investing’s first core value is Compassion. We think that it is important to give generously to those in need, and your parent is now the one in need. We may be able to help you organize your parents’ “financial junk drawers.” We can also manage their remaining assets in a way that helps preserve them to pay for their next place of living. We can be your “financial quarterback” in organizing the key professional players you need input from. We often collaborate with several professionals who deal with issues that may be outside of your wheelhouse. As you face this emotional time in your life, we would be honored to serve with you and help you tackle the toughest decision you may ever face.
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During this episode, Shelly opens up about the mental illness that ailed her late son Jonathan. Around 19 years old, Jonathan Hamilton took an acne medicine that sent him into a clinical depression. Upon further examination, the doctors diagnosed Jonathan with schizophrenia. After seven years with no solutions, a Christian psychiatrist found a combination of medicine that enabled Jonathan to function. During this period, Jonathan penned beautiful songs published by Majesty Music and began working again. Fifteen years into his illness, a generic version of his medication became available, which removed the insurance coverage of Jonathan’s specialized medicine. Unknown to Ron and Shelly, Jonathan chose to go off the generic medication and tragically took his own life on Mother’s Day. Losing their son rattled Ron and Shelly’s world. In the midst of their tragedy, they remained strong in the faith believing in God’s providential plan for their life. Jonathan left a lasting legacy and a testimony that has touched the lives of many.
As Shelly pointed out in her life verse, the Just shall live by faith. You may be wondering why this episode is on a financial podcast, and the reason is that death and tragedy are all part of life. Many facing trials and tragedies turn to faith, and we hope this has been an encouragement to those who are facing similar trials including mental illness, suicide, or the death of a child. One of Intelligent Investing’s Core Values is Truth, and we believe that speaking the truth in love is a way to show compassion on others. Sometimes the truth hurts or is hard to say, and we hope this episode has been an encouragement to those facing similar tragedies. Be sure to subscribe to our Intelligent Money Minute podcasts to hear our many interviews with Shelly and her family by going to our podcast page.
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Shelly Hamilton, the daughter of Frank Garlock, married Ron Hamilton aka “Patch the Pirate” in 1975. They have managed Majesty Music and written sacred music for children and adults since they joined the ministry in 1978. Shelly currently ministers at Majesty Music as pianist, composer, arranger, and recording producer. In 2013, their son killed himself after years of struggle with mental health issues. The family’s public struggle and acknowledgement of mental health issues has reached people around the world. Most recently her family faces a new challenge: Ron Hamilton’s early onset of dementia. Her insight and music will encourage anyone facing the challenges of life.
In January 2018 Majesty Music announced their third generation of leadership. After years of waiting for God’s timing, Ron and Shelly transitioned the ministry over to their son-in-law Representative Adam Morgan and his wife, Ron and Shelly’s daughter, Megan.
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For when I am tried and purified, I shall come forth as gold. These are the words that Ron Hamilton penned as he faced cancer which eventually took his eye. Ron and Shelly Hamilton had only been married three years when they received the news that Ron had cancer in his eye. Initially, the doctors speculated that his cancer could spread further into his brain, which would prohibit any surgical operations. Shelly had to come to grips with the reality that she may lose her husband after only three years of marriage. Thankfully, God had a different plan for Ron and Shelly. The doctors removed Ron’s eye and through that trial was the birth of the Patch the Pirate adventures.
As Shelly points out, God often turns our greatest trials in our lives into the greatest blessings of our lives. At Intelligent Investing, we understand that managing your wealth and finances is a small fraction of your entire life. Our goal is to help be your accountability partner, and advisor, as you face various trials in your life. We’d be honored to have a quick cup of coffee or a call to talk about what is going on in your world, and see if we may be a good fit to assist you as we go through life together.
If you haven’t subscribed to our podcasts, you can go to our podcast page and choose whichever method you want to download them. While you are there, you can go to our blog page and subscribe so you can get our latest Intelligent Insights directly in your inbox.
Shelly Hamilton, the daughter of Frank Garlock, married Ron Hamilton aka “Patch the Pirate” in 1975. They have managed Majesty Music and written sacred music for children and adults since they joined the ministry in 1978. Shelly currently ministers at Majesty Music as pianist, composer, arranger, and recording producer. In 2013, their son killed himself after years of struggle with mental health issues. The family’s public struggle and acknowledgement of mental health issues has reached people around the world. Most recently her family faces a new challenge: Ron Hamilton’s early onset of dementia. Her insight and music will encourage anyone facing the challenges of life.
In January 2018 Majesty Music announced their third generation of leadership. After years of waiting for God’s timing, Ron and Shelly transitioned the ministry over to their son-in-law Representative Adam Morgan and his wife, Ron and Shelly’s daughter, Megan.